Introspection:

An examination of one’s own thoughts and feelings.

A reflective look inward

I was fortunate this week to spend time, at the beach, with my girlfriends. This is a group of strong, smart and loving women that have been very close friends for over 25 years. We have been through many life events, good and bad, together. One friend in particular is my “best friend”. We are soul sisters. We have known each other for more than 33 years. She is the one person I can call anytime, any where, tell anything to and never be judge, only loved. We were once roommates and now live thousands of miles apart. But our dear friendship has survived and thrived.

This friend was diagnosed with cancer last year. Through the year we shared many, many  phone calls. We shared information on treatment options (I am a oncology nurse), fears, tears, anger and encouragement. She is now well over one year out from her diagnosis. This group of friends wore a green bracelet that reminded each of us to think of her and send her positive healing thoughts. 

While all the women were together at the beach, we all talk. We talk A LOT! We talk about everything. YOU name it….., politics, the state of the world, our marriages, our families, and each other! In between talking we eat (very well), sleep, read and spend time at the beach. It is a wonderful time.

Life is a beach...

This year we spent some time reviewing our lives and then complaining about growing old.

Our bodies are really changing and none of us are very happy about these physical changes. 

By now you are wondering what this blog, that is about my upcoming pilgrimage to the Camino Santiago de Compostela, has to do with my recent beach trip????

Well, my dear friend made 2 profound statements that grounded me, and set me back on course for making this trip what it is meant to be. 

It is meant to be a time for introspection, spiritual mediation, reflection and nourishment of the soul.

I am fortunate to have a life that I love, people and family around me that love me unconditionally. My friend had a life changing event, that now makes her appreciate life even more. She reminded me that life may change but we need to embrace each stage.

She also encouraged me to walk the camino for myself. To take this time as a gift, and use it as it was meant to be spent, praying, reflecting and looking deep inside. She encouraged me to NOT publish the event on my blog or Facebook, but use the time for my spiritual growth and to deepen my faith in God.

Good words from a good friend.